Hope For Parents With Struggling Teens

Trust Between Parents and Teens

Brandon Joffe, LCSW

Brandon navigates the delicate balance of trust between parents and teens, focusing on the complexities of teen honesty. He addresses why teens often lie—whether to protect themselves or avoid conflict—and how parents’ reactions can sometimes unintentionally reinforce dishonest behavior. Brandon highlights the importance of setting clear boundaries, being mindful of how questions are asked, and modeling honesty in everyday life. He also emphasizes that trust isn't something that can be immediately earned back but rather a gradual process that unfolds over time. Brandon offers practical advice for parents on how to respond to dishonesty in a way that fosters growth, accountability, and self-reflection in their teens. He discusses how parents can shift their focus from "how to get the truth" to building a healthier relationship and setting realistic expectations. With a focus on long-term solutions and consistent follow-through, Brandon encourages parents to remember that even when trust is broken, it doesn't have to damage the relationship.